Have you ever sat down to paint, only to feel frozen by the fear that it won’t look just right? or just like mine? Maybe you compare your work to the original reference and feel discouraged when it doesn’t match up exactly. But here’s the thing—if you wanted an exact replica, you would take a photograph.
Art isn’t about copying something stroke for stroke. It’s about expression—taking what you see, what you feel, and translating it onto the canvas in your own way. Whether you’re painting a sunset, a landscape, or a simple flower, your personal touch is what makes it art. and Like I always say "Art Can't be Wrong"
Let Go of the Pressure to Be Exact
There’s something freeing about realizing that your painting doesn’t have to look exactly like your reference photo. Think of it this way: if five artists sat down to paint the same tree, every single painting would be different. Some would be more realistic, others more abstract, and some might even lean into impressionism with loose, colorful brushstrokes. And guess what? Every single one would be “right.”
So why do we hold ourselves to impossible standards?
Because we’ve been conditioned to think that perfection equals value. But in reality, the beauty of art is in the imperfections, the little quirks, and the way it reflects the artist behind the brush.
Use the Image in Your Head & What You See
The next time you sit down to create, instead of stressing about accuracy, try this:
- Look at your reference, then close your eyes. What do you remember most? The colors? The shapes? The mood?
- Sketch loosely without worrying about details. Let your hand move freely.
- Focus on what excites you. Maybe it’s the contrast of light and shadow, or the way the colors blend.
- Embrace the imperfections. Those unexpected brushstrokes? They’re part of your artistic voice.
- It's about the journey. How did this project make you feel?
Your painting isn’t supposed to be an exact replica—it’s supposed to be a reflection of you.
Take Inspiration, Then Make It Your Own
Inspiration is everywhere—in nature, in photographs, in memories. But it’s just a starting point. What makes your art meaningful is the way you interpret that inspiration.
A flower in a reference photo might be bright yellow, but maybe you want yours to be soft pink or a deep, moody blue. Maybe you change the shape of the petals or add a little swirl in the background because it feels right. That’s the magic of creativity.
Your art is yours. It doesn’t have to look like someone else’s. It doesn’t even have to look like the original idea in your head. It just has to feel like you.
Start with a Digital Download "Art Kit"
All my digital download art kits come with a tracer, step by step video and "suggested supply list" but use what you have on hand and Make it your Own.
Enjoy the Process, Not Just the Outcome
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned from teaching acrylic painting is that art isn’t just about the final product—it’s about the journey. The act of creating, of mixing colors, of letting the brush move across the canvas—that’s where the true joy is.
So the next time you feel frustrated because your painting doesn’t look exactly like the reference, take a deep breath and remind yourself:
✨ If you wanted an exact replica, you’d take a photograph. ✨
Instead, let yourself create freely, without judgment. Trust your instincts. Use your imagination. And most importantly, enjoy the process—because that’s where the real magic happens.
What do you think? Would love to hear how you approach art without the pressure of perfection! Drop a comment below and let’s chat. 🎨💕
-teresa XO
1 comment
As always, your encouragement is truly appreciated. I like the way you make sense of it all and give us the tools to make it happen no matter what. Thank you